Of course ill hurt you. Of course you’ll hurt me. Of course we will hurt each other. But this is the very condition of existence. To become spring means accepting the risk of winter. To become presence means accepting the risk of absence.
Welcoming pain in our lives is a way of controlling it. A lot has happened to all of us. Each person has experience pain in a different type of way.
Pain has a way of controlling our lives. For my case, i used to deny am in pain by accepting to be or become what i really didn’t want. Most people become prisoners of relationships that aren’t benefiting them in any way.
Wake! Up! People!
This is a personal decision. You ain’t forced to be where you ain’t happy in the name of “love”. Love is supposed to be a natural feeling connecting two people. Its not generated from being intimate with each other nor having a rich fiancee.
Each relationship has its own way of expressing their love. People learn to walk away when a connection starts to fade. Learn how to let it go when a person starts to mistreat you. Learn how to move on to something or someone better.
Don’t waste your precious time forcing something that isn’t meant to be because the truth is for every one person who doesn’t value you, there are tons more waiting to love you better, to appreciate every bit of you and to keep you happy for a life time. Do yourself a favour and move on.
I usually don’t see sense in staying where there no happiness.